Olga Bończyk has no children because she never wanted them. The star arouses outrage! She revealed everything in “Question for Breakfast”

Olga Bończyk is 57 years old and is one of those women who never wanted to become mothers. They fulfill themselves in other areas of life and do not miss the children they could have. Unfortunately, not everyone still understands that parenthood is a choice, not an obligation. Bończyk has heard unfavorable comments! She told all about it in front of the cameras of “Pytania na Śniadanie”.

Olga Bończyk never dreamed of being a mother. She is now approving sixty and is a happy, fulfilled woman. She did not need children to create a good life for herself, rich in experiences.

I have never felt incomplete, and even more so, unhappy because of the lack of children.  I have never felt that having children would complete me in any way. It is a very selfish claim that a child would make me a fulfilled or happy woman. Anyone who thinks that this is how it works is very wrong. I also admit that I have never felt a maternal instinct, so I have not sought an opportunity in my life to become a mother.  Today I know that I filled this gap with interest by taking care of my deaf parents in childhood, and this fact probably strongly influenced my conscious resignation from motherhood.

Stars on Conscious Choice Not to Have Children in “Question for Breakfast”

Recently, the topic of conscious resignation from parenthood, or rather motherhood, was raised on the TVP breakfast television.

“I don’t want to be a mother” – more and more women say it loudly and consciously. Without children, but not by accident – by choice. A few years ago, such a voice caused misunderstanding. Today, it is increasingly becoming the subject of important conversations and an expression of life in harmony with oneself – we read on the Instagram profile “Pytania na Śniadanie”.

The show featured Beata Pawlikowska, Agnieszka Gajewska and Olga Bończyk. An important piece of information was added to the Instagram post:

According to CBOS, as many as 43% of women aged 18-45 do not plan to have children. In 2017, it was 35%. This is not a whim, it is a social change.

Olga Bończyk Chose Not to Be a Mom. She Was Told She Was Selfish

Olga Bończyk never hid the fact that she didn’t intend to have children. As it turns out, she didn’t have to explain it to others.

Fortunately, I never had to explain myself, somehow no one had the courage to ask me that question.  My choices were so obvious that I never noticed it. Besides, I started my professional career very quickly and I had so many activities, trips, concert tours, work, that my life really worked out in such a way that those who were watching it or might have such a wish knew that it might not be possible to combine it logistically – she confessed in “Pytanie na Śniadanie”.

And she added:

It’s no secret that I had two husbands.  The time to do it didn’t come , and then even when I tried to build my life with my partners, I felt that it wasn’t the time. I always thought that a child would definitely not unite, that this wasn’t the case, it wasn’t supposed to work that way. To bring a child into the world, you need two people who really want it, who feel that they will give them time, dedication, that they will give it the space in which the child can really grow wisely and will be able to develop truly and with love. (…) I once heard something like that, that since I am a woman who has chosen childlessness, it means that I am selfish, because I live for myself. I thought to myself how many couples I know who have just tried to unite their falling apart relationships with a child. For me, it is selfishness to manipulate a child.